

When we are in him, we are “dead” to those behaviors and thoughts that make us cringe and think, “Why did I do that? What was I thinking?” Christ’s death frees us from the power of sin and gives us another alternative. Why? So we would no longer be enslaved to sin. We learn that when Christ was crucified, our “old self,” our shadow side, was crucified with him. We know that our old self was crucified with him so that the body of sin might be destroyed, so we might no longer be enslaved to sin. Let’s take a look at what he says in Romans 6:įor if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly be united with him in a resurrection like his. The apostle Paul has written about this idea of considering certain aspects of ourselves as being “dead”, especially in the way our baptism mirrors Christ’s death and resurrection. The truth is, you and I should consider ourselves dead to these negative behaviors and thought patterns and be alive for something bigger and more life-giving. But what if we use the phrase “dead to me” differently and apply it to the shadow side of ourselves? You know, the parts of ourselves that we wish we could change, like acting selfishly, thinking ourselves better than others, or feeling abandoned by God and other people. This can be a harsh statement to make, especially if we consider that forgiveness benefits us as well as the person we think wronged us.

The phrase “dead to me” has unknown origins but saying that someone is “dead to me” communicates that you no longer want to speak or have any kind of contact with that person.
